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| Title: 'BILL OF RIGHT' 6/Oil - Prayer Art by Rev.Bola A. |
'MAY IT BE RECORDED IN THE BOOK OF LIFE - I THIS DAY AFFIRM, HERE ON EARTH, AS IN THE HEAVENS THAT......
1. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim a right to all those good times that I have longed for all these years and didn't get.
2. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim a right to joy in this life, right here, right now not just as a momentary rush of euphoria, but something more substantive and permanent.
3. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim a right to relax and have fun in a non-toxic, non-shaming, and non-destructive way.
4. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim a right to actively pursue people, places, and situations that will help me in achieving a good life.
5. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to say no whenever I feel something is not safe or I am not ready.
6. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to not participate in either the active or passive "crazy-making" behaviour of any family members, or others.
7. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to take calculated risks and to experiment with new strategies.
8. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to change my tune, my strategy, and my funny equations.
9. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to 'mess up'; to make mistakes, to 'blow it', to disappoint myself, and to fall short of the mark.
10. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to leave the company of people who deliberately or inadvertently put me down, lay a guilt trip on me, manipulate or humiliate me, including any toxic/abusive/shaming parent, any non-toxic parent, or any other relative.
11. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to put an end to conversations with people who make me feel put down and humiliated.
12. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to all my feelings.
13. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to trust my own feelings, my own judgement, my own hunches, my own intuition, concerning my life, even above those of others.
14. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to develop myself as a whole person emotionally, spiritually, mentally, physically, and psychologically.
15. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to express all my feelings in a non-destructive way and at a safe time and place.
16. I (Rev.Bola) do have and claim the right to as much time as I need to experiment with new information and new ideas and to initiate changes in my life.
17. I (Rev.Bola) have and claim the right to sort out the bill of goods my parents sold me, to take the acceptable and dump the unacceptable.
18. I (Rev.Bola) have a right to a mentally healthy, sane way of existence, though it may deviate in part, or all, from my parents' own prescribed philosophy of life.
19. I (Rev.Bola) have a right to carve out my place in this world.
20. I (Rev.Bola) have do have and claim the right to financial abundance and security in this life, right here, right now, not just as a momentary rush of luck, but something more substantive and permanent.
21. I (Rev.Bola) have a right to follow any of the above rights, to live my life the way I want to, and to not wait until a toxic/shaming parent gets well, gets happy, seeks help, or admits, acknowledges or
permits anything.
22. I (Rev.Bola) am choosing to accept these beliefs as the truth, and I thank God that S/He has made it so.
AND SO IT IS!
Now it's your turn, use these statements freely to claim your God given rights.
love x Rev.Bola
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